Having a blog is a lot like having a relationship. You have to put a lot of work into it, on a daily basis to really have a healthy relationship. Blogging is similar. I've neglected my blogging relationship of late though, because I had a real-life relationship that needed extra tending to.
Hence, I'm now a married woman. In case I had somehow forgotten, my friends continue to remind me nearly every time I see them now: "Wow! AMBER! You're married!"
And I go: "Yep. I am."
I don't know why it's not weird to me. Maybe it was the year of preparation leading up to the day. Possibly.
It is what it is. But I thought that once the day was over it would be this big relief and then life would go on smoothly. But no. There's more now. More questions...
"So? Now when are you going to start having kids?"
Slow down, we are getting married and buying a house in one year. Is this not enough? Should we really be taking on more life-altering experiences?
Anyway. Life goes on and it is good. The best part about getting married (aside from how great it is to find someone you love enough to do it) is how happy it seems to make other people. It's so sweet.
I myself didn't cry at our wedding. But many others felt compelled to come tell me how moving it was and that they cried. So cute.
